Explaining Equality

“Equality as “I must be the SAME as him/her” vs Standing in/as the starting point of what is best for all INDIVIDUALLY and within that principle we’re EQUAL”

Firstly, we’re going to have a look at the Mind’s interpretation of “equality” to ensure that we “iron out all the subtleties” of perception and ensure there is no ‘misunderstanding’ with regards to equality

In one’s thought/backchat/imagination one might think/imagine oneself to “be LIKE someone else” – like, exactly the same/similar. Utilizing another individual as “who they are” for your inspiration to be/become the same/similar. When, what one have to realise here is that:

One cannot look at another person in the totality of who they are and compare you to them from that perspective – that is comparing one individual to another individual, when in our individuality – we’re DIFFERENT, but do have a potential to even within that difference be EQUAL/stand together

This means:

What one can, however, consider is THE PROCESS an Individual walked, what did they walk/how did they walk to emerge/express themselves as they do, and then the question should not be “how do I become like them”, the question should be “how do I discover MY individual expression/point/purpose” through walking the same process?

Make sense? The slight change/shift in starting point – where one would create an external relationship to someone, place THEM in your Mind and then use THEM as a mirror for you to be “equal to” VERSUS you placing ONLY YOU in centre of yourself/mind/body and finding out/discovering your different/individual expression/purpose

Now, what dynamics do one create if you want to try and be the Equality-Sameness of someone-else, instead of you finding out who you are when standing within/as equality and oneness in/as the principle of what’s best for all? The following:

Do you notice that, when you want to b the SAME as another, that only that ONE person, or a handful would occupy your mind? Where are YOU then within it all? What about your relationship to everything/everyone else? Can you then walk actual equality and oneness, if your main focus is to try and be the SAME as one or a few people?

Love all life as one Equal Life foundation

Additionally within this, you will find that the SAMENESS-equality point, can only be done through COMPARISON – which brings forth the game of superiority and inferiority, which means you are split within yourself, comparing you to others to try and be the same, constantly in comparison to them shifting between inferiority and superiority in relationship to others as you ceaselessly try and “sameness” yourself to them -while the mind is laughing in the background cause it can for a lifetime keep you competing within your comparison game, juggling you between the polarities

So, therefore remember: the Process is that we all stand in the equal starting point of Principle as what’s best for all, from that starting point, we walk the same path/process – writing, forgiveness, application…and chats lol for assistance/support – in this stand of ourselves Individually, your concentration should be on WHO YOU ARE within YOURSELF, expanding YOU, changing YOU, directing YOU and LEARNING from others, rather than holding one/afew on your mind that you use to compare to. So, taking “sameness, competition and comparison” out of the equation – sets one free to focus on oneself, which is where the main focus is supposed to be

See, science is looking at the physical body like it’s “god” – meaning: “what’s the physical says – GOES, and that’s it”, when in fact, the physical has been programmed through the MIND/CONSCIOUSNESS over a lifetime, and will accordingly be thus a process to change from consciousness/mind to awareness and ensure it’s LIVED into the physical, which is the importance of actual SELF APPLICATION/change in reality

with ‘fearing to become like others’ as the other polarity, here – remember “what you resist, persist” – meaning: if you fear something in someone/judge something in someone and you resist it, you’re trying to fight a part of you that exist within this existence. So, I would suggest, rather than resisting/fighting such points/people/characteristics – ask yourself the question “why am I not liking this/reacting to this/fearing this/judging this? how can I rather UNDERSTAND it, why/how it exist, what are its consequence, place myself in their shoes and in this process – with understanding such things, I can assist/support others who may/might face such points in themselves/their lives/others”. See, people tend to resist/push away others because of reactions – rather than understanding them/assisting/supporting them

So, to make one’s process more direct for oneself – rather than looping around comparison and competition, suggest investigating the people you wanted to be the SAME as – invert yourself/focus to you, and start with your own Mind and what’s going on in there

Yes, everyone – people’s Minds are becoming more and more unpredictable, please – you have to become more aware when communicating/interacting with people, you don’t want to be in reactions/ego, you want to ensure you’re at all times stable and aware to not “initiate/activate” things in others unnecessarily

Sunette Spies

Lao Tzu ~ Darkness within Darkness. The gateway to all understanding.

Darkness within darkness. The gateway to all understanding

Reptilians – The Key to Life Through Evil (Part 1) – Part 111 (<< click here to go to the Eqafe Self Perfection merchandise store)

* Why is facing the Evil/Darkness of ourselves/the Mind the Key to Self-Awareness? What does it mean to “face the Evil/Darkness of ourselves/the Mind”?

* What’s the consequences been of us fearing our own evil/darkness/negativity?

* Why do the Negative/Evil/Dark of ourselves/the Mind represent the inherent nature of our Beingness?

Being all there vs. being all here

When I was watching television earlier on this evening I heard the phrase “not all there” in correlation to someone not having it all there “in the head” – which would refer to one is not normal / sane. Like it is saying that if one has it “all there” “in the head” one is okay / good. Then one is functioning fine according to the world / money system – conform the belief of being right or wrong / being all there or being not all there – making money of being all there is good / god. When we take into consideration that we are all equal – what then are these words really indicating?

Quite the opposite – being all here is being all sane. We don’t need anything mulling in the head to live here as all what is here – that’s common sense, to stop the preprogrammed circular thinking.

Nothing going on up there in the head anymore – being aware of breath. Bringing all here, because what is in the mind as the head is not real – thoughts are not normal, delusions / lies / separations.

Yes nothing is what it seems and all is in reverse.

We have never been here completely – see Desteni tools to get self here, to stop the mind and to birth self as breath in and as the Physical.


BE HERE AS BREATH OF LIFE – when we all will be here, we will be free.

Example of a technique

Video of a fellow custodian of the universe

I myself apply yoga as a technique bringing myself back to myself within and as breath.

All tied up to our preprogrammed existence

All tied up to your views, opinions, ideas – are you uptight? Not a singular idea, thought, opinion will set you free from yourself as the mind. Enslaved to serve the mind consciousness system.

Hanging with strings as thoughts from which generates things as feelings and emotions. A world wide web. How did this preprogrammed existence we are ‘living’ come about? Suggestion is to read The History of Mankind at http://www.desteni.co.za/articles or watch the video series.

Transcending thoughts /matrix / mind /ego is becoming at ease with yourself as equality and onenesss from within and without.

Self forgiveness is the key to self a tool to cure dis-ease with self —

Self honesty is the key to freedom —

Self correction —

Self direction —

Self Movement

Work this out for yourself – free yourself from the mind consciousness enslavement – join the Desteni group of people!



Stand as one as equal as all to Change Self to change world — www.desteniiprocess.com

Common sense of the human body — www.equalmoney.org

Research material – mathematically proven — www.desteni.co.za

If I am not changing I am in ego

It is impossible to change if I do not stand as all as one as equal for I can then not take responsiblity for all as one.

Last month I was busy with DIP’s Assignment 3 Step-by-Step Self-Forgiveness Worksheet.

After completing it got clear to me that I was ‘stuck’ within applying myself within the tool of self forgiveness. How did that come about? Because in the last couple of months I started applying them from within the starting point of reaction as self-created fear (ego) of ‘maybe missing a SF point’ – so starting them silently within my head and then stop myself within in my mind and start speaking them out aloud in stead of speaking SF aloud immediately. Holy fuckedness. I first calm down, stop the reaction with SF within myself, breathe in and forgive the thought on the outbreath. I did not completely stop this and apply self corrective actions, therefor could not simply walk-through and change. This morning I realised I was caught of in self forgiveness and ‘forgetting’ to simply actually correct and live myself as CHANGE, direct myself to stop walking in that cycle, stop starting SF in the head and direct myself as breath and walk here in self-application. Some points take more breaths… I like change, I am change, I like to stand equal immediately in stead of first reacting and then having to apply SF causae I had a reaction / thought / emotion. Silly.

Along the way I had gotten into the assumption that I had to have pictures and /or emotions to thoughts. That is not allways the case so I read in DIP Lesson 3. So I stop looking for a picture if I don’t see/remember one.

Next Assignment 4 Self corrective statements – that’ll be effective.

We are all patterns – hence, transcending ego and the ability to actually change takes great self-honesty:

A discussion looking into the nature of the human being and our inability to actually change ourselves and this world into something that is of support for self and all life equally.

What is real change? Is your change real or just a facade in secret?

I forgive myself that I have allowed and accepted myself to go into an automated reaction as self forgivess in stead of stopping myself first to breath here and see what is I am actually doing.

I forgive myself that I have allowed and accepted myself to fear my own creation of my mind.

I forgive myself that I have allowed and accepted myself to fear my own reaction to my mind in stead of me calming myself down first and stopping myself starting SF in the head.

I forgive myself that I have allowed and accepted myself to fear my own reaction to my mind in stead of me calming myself down first and breathing through this here.

I forgive myself that I have allowed and accepted myself to fear my own reaction to my mind in stead of me remaining here as breath as self honesty.

I forgive myself that I have allowed and accepted myself to have gotten myself into the assumption that I had to have pictures and /or emotions to thoughts.

The best gift you can give yourself — www.desteniiprocess.com

The best gift you can give to all as you — www.equalmoney.org

Research the matter on how we as our minds abuse true self value — www.desteni.co.za