DIP – Stop Being Hard on Self, Change in and as a Gentle Agreement with Self

“Understand that – to assist and support self within stopping the existence of self within the definition of ‘Life’ being that of having a Personality that define self as being ‘Individual’ within the living of self as a Ego-Persona of Mind – the definition that is infused/amalgamated within/as self through this ‘Tree of Life’-System = is to investigate and identify ‘personality-definitions’ self… has accepted as self within the definition of ‘who I am’ that is lived as self through the Mind Consciousness System. This is done through observing/remem­bering one’s grandparents and parents – that will reflect to self personality-definitions self has copied from them, that self is currently existing as. Personality will be seen within, for example behaviour, mannerism, physical-actions, speech, body-language etc. – all such traits which form the entire definition of self, self exist as through the Mind, reflected from one’s parents and grandparents. To stop existing as such habits of manifested personality-traits defined as ‘living’ ‘life’ –

but manifest self equal and one as all here as self-expression and actually live as Life equal and one as all.”

Winged – Sharing Daily Activities: System Removals

That’s what I did when I was a child observing my grandparents on the sundays after church visists. What in them is what’s in me – I don’t know exactly when I realised these matters, but quite a long time ago. Not that I knew how to remove these transferred / copied systems of survival to change myself until the material and tools presented by Desteni.

My fathers’ father for instance was quite ‘hard’ (see the hardening system – www.desteni.co.za/articles) on himself as on others. “Zwaar op de hand” in dutch – “aan den lijve ondervonden” translates in I found it to my cost. Granddad had eleven sons and one daughter – the youngest child. What I saw was competition amongst most of my uncles especially on topics of science, knowledge and information of this world, which I knew from John in the bible was “not to accept”. But yeah who was I to speak? Allways listening I became a walking encyclopedia destroying true self value and not wanting to be like that at the same time, through which I infact created a polarity within myself.  There are more systems within me I am not aware of yet, because when we are naught we have already the unconscious system downloaded within us and while we grow up we adopt till the age of seven all we have had in our environments to become perfectly enslaved systems in the system / matrix. (As how Anu and his friends had wanted and created human beings to be controlled and enslaved to dig up the gold from within the earth). This is how we come to program self witihn the system to become the system we have currently become. “Knowledge and information of this world is the power to abuse our essence as who we are as equality and oneness of Life”. This disease / machine on Earth has to stop HERE!

In the Desteni ‘I’ Process (DIP) we learn to deconstruct the Mind Consciousness System Components as there are thoughts, feelings, emotions, memories, pictures. To remove self-doubt and build self trust through specific self forgiveness on shit that comes up from within in the mind layers.

Here’s how I stop – stopping the mind, learning to be self-directive, self-effective, self-trust.

1. Living Self honesty equal and one as all.

2. Application of Self forgiveness whenever a thought, feelings and/or emotion of the mind comes up to be able to immediately stop participating in the mind and therefor feeding the mindsystem in yourself as in the global system (matrix).

3. Focussing on every breath here, to be able to stay here as breath and to realise that all which is real is me here in every moment of breath – that whatever goed around in my head as the mind is not real.

4. Writing because in writing I assist me through seeing myself straight in front of me in words and through applying self forgiveness on emotions, feelings, thoughts and / or memories whilst writing.


How to practically, effectively apply Self-Forgiveness to release the crystallized system-designs from within our human physical bodies – Veno (see Desteni articles)

Through speaking extremely specifically Self Forgivenesses aloud the crystals we have formed within our human physical bodies will explode to free ourselves from the mind.

Crystal exploding in slow motion

Into a Gentle Agreement with Self — www.desteniiprocess.com

To Change the unequal Money System — www.equalmoney.org

It’s inevitable for All to See Real — www.desteni.co.za